Also, why cant just everybody learn to tolerate ambiguity. There’s reason why there’s diplomacy and boundaries afterall. Yes of course it will hurt but thats the process. Not everything and theres always gonna be sunshine and rainbows and we could be in state but not settle for constant gloom. God, I really have this drive to lecture everyone to be the better version of themselves *which is not that good given my role and I usually am more empathetic than this*. Im not mad. There’s a lot of dynamics I could tolerate. I have lessons to pass my descendants afterall. I think everyone could take something from this.
