See…ideally, instead of playing the games mad, i play them when Im in a good mood. Then I play better. Then, when I start losing, instead of getting mad and sperging out, i would just stop playing the game as soon as i started getting mad, and spend time with you instead because just being around you would activate my serotonin and oxytocin receptors and lower my heart rate. A hug from you or a talk with you could literally squeeze all of the negativity and anger out of me on the spot. Alternatively…. if you were ever looking to get hatefucked, just make me play league of legends for 2 hours with metal music playing while youre nowhere to be found, then ask me to hatefuck you. You just being around would prevent most of my self destructive death spirals from ever getting started even if we were just chatting on voice chat. You are the ying to my yang, the peanut butter to my chocolate.