Ladies there are two kinds of gentlemen on this planet. The first kind of man, you have to convince to go down on you, if he’ll go down on you at all. And he damn sure aint gonna do it right or for long enough for you to get off. Hes gonna treat your p**** like it’s the mcdonalds drivethrough and he just wants to get home. The second kind of man? He lives to go down on you. He will spend 45 minutes eating you out, f******** you, and gently sucking on your c*** before he even puts the d*** in. He might even bring the toys. Watch out for the second type of dude. Selfless lovers will have you hooked like a drug within a week. When he gets off on getting you off, and doesnt just treat you like a c** dumpster, all bets are off.