To “high libido us a curse”. Right there with you. Destroyed first marriage of 30 years by succumbing to that relentless inner voice. Damn near damaged current marriage by moments of mental weakness/nearly acting on them. Feel like it is a demon whispering in my ear waiting to catch me off guard in a weak moment. The only thing that has kept me from failing is a combination of plain looks age and a mental block on erection. There is nothing physically wrong with me. Do not take this as recommendation, it is something you might want to look into, I just started alcohol injections.