my wife denied me s** for 2 straight years, decided as a new years resolution to start being better with that that, got pregnant after the second time lol, mission accomplished, but now she asks for it every day and really I got used to things being the way they were, never cheated but would watch p***, occasionally flirt with a female friend or have a dirty chat online with a stranger, and I kinda got used to that tbh lol, wife always just likes vanilla and boring which really just isn’t much of a turn on for me anymore, I have told her this, and being pregnant really doesn’t help that at all either. Been together 11 years, married for 3 now, we’re having the baby, can’t we just relax and go through the motions now?