Its not apophenia. I was convinced it was for the longest time, but that’s what she wanted me to think. She gaslit the f*** out of me and I have proof. My therapist says I’m not schizophrenic and she believes me after I showed her all my evidence. She’s seen this before. One or two unlikely coincidences are a write off but 35 not so much. It’s a textbook narcissistic abuse tactic. I know exactly what she has been doing for the last couple years.