plans for the aformentioned affair have been cancelled, wife apparently got pregnant one of the 2 times we’ve had s** so far this year, I know this is truly where it all ends for that, and if we are to ever have s** again in the future it will be purely for procreative purposes, but I’m gonna ride it out, be the best husband and father I can be, and hopefully things’ll turn around. If not at the end/beginning of every decade bold and profound occurances usually happen to me, normally it’s losing people who were bad in my life and facing forward to something new and unexplored, this of course is that for now, we shall see what happens in ten years, maybe I’ll be getting divorced if things don’t get better, or hopefully things will actually be better between me and my wife, we shall see……