To TWSA

Yours is a new twist on the old and terrifying theme.

If this were a more typical case of a woman who simply did not want to go that far, and you were made to do so, I would be in full agreement that it was ‘r***’.

IF we forget about the penetrative i********** ongoing, and merely analyze your boyfriend’s judgment, then he is perhaps so dense that common sense says that a sensible girl doesn’t want to be with such a fool for very long.

And if you had 30 minutes to boff your boyfriend, in the needed rush before your mom arrived… YOU yourself weren’t much brighter than he is… for it was a dumb path to embark upon under such time constraints.

The whole question of whether or not YOU can TRUST him… is a central concern… so maybe this one is a rare case where indeed the attention should be moved away from the questions of “r***”, and instead centered on whether this person can be trusted going forward.

There is just some murky area around “stop! my mom’s outside” … compared to the more common “Stop! (I don’t want to have s** with you)”.

For there is no question that you initially consented to i**********.

SO any couple in the throes of vaginal i********** may indeed reach a point where someone is so physically uncomfortable or hurt, that he/she says “STOP!” … and while it is entirely right for the other person to stop at once… it might not be the best move to try to pin “r***” accusations in such a scenario.

SO in summation, I think this is much more about your “trust” questions than it was about the definition of r***.

Only you knew how it felt to feel powerless at that moment, and we all know who was responsible for that feeling (it wasn’t your mother).

The question is yours and only yours to decide for yourself.