RE: “if we are going to circumcise many of the boys in this country…”.
Fairness in circumcision surgery is a nonsensical concept. If a man gets a sort haircut, it doesn’t mean every woman needs to have her hair shorn to the scalp just to keep things ‘equal.’
Because many men wear a size twelve boot doesn’t mean all women should be forced to wear size twelve boots to be fair. The point is that your ‘fairness’ argument only works if you ignore the fact that the people involved are actually different, boys are different from girls. Very different.