I have never cheated on any of my lovers or partners either. Although when I was living in NYC an ex called that I dated in high school, she tracked me down 10 years later to see if she could come spend the weekend with me and reconnect. She was a model with Ford, and it was quiet flattering. We went to a tattoo parlor, and hung out. She met my fiance but did not think she was good enough for me. In retrospect, I should have cheated, because my fiances infidelity killed that relationship. Does loyalty really matter anymore?