So finally got a text from married top boyfriend. Wanting to come over. Except when I open the door I see that it is his wife and got an immediate full arm swing hand to the face. After I blinked a few times I told her she was welcome to come in and get it out of her system or talk. She took a moment to decide then walked in and sat down. I fixed her a drink without asking and said that I assumed he had been stupid enough to tell her. She nodded and the sobbing started. Did the best I could despite being the bad guy ( which I am no argument). When zhe was glued back together she asked what we were supposed to talk about. She said she wanted to know the truth all of it and I agreed, and told her I only needed to know one thing, when he had told her. He had only told her this morning, which I said meant that he had not been under lock down for a week because of her and so it had been his choice to not even say hi for a week after 4 non stop days of s**. I told her that I was not trying to make it about me but that it was prob a tossup which of us thought the worst about him at the moment. I suggested we order food and she was welcome to stay and talk thru whatever we wanted to talk thru.