i’m a minority woman and i hate it when men during s** expect me to holler out all sorts of nonsense during s**–theatrics. in my culture, we call it the white woman holler, the scream panting that basically means ‘the fake woman holler’. you should definitely instead use her panting and moaning as a measure of how good you are making her feel. a non-white will moan, pant, and holler your name when it’s justified and you’ve sent her to the moon, not some fake nonsense white woman holler to show you how ‘fake’ lucky you are to have her.