Not sure if this is getting surreal or unreal. Ex wife and ber husband dropped by. Not to s******* use me this time sadly. They wanted to sit and talk. They told me that they have talked it over and while they most enjoy double teaming me, they jave compared notes between themselves about each having specific individual desires that the other does not share. That neither of them is bothered by that in the other and that they are both ok with the other being there watching or not as long as there is no lying or anything hidden. So as long as I am ok with it sometimes being one or the other occasionally, with all decision power resting with them, they are quite pleased that they can turn to me whether as individuals or couples. They also reassured me that if am in need of either of them or both of them, or in the mood for something specific, thatI am free to ask and may be indulged but no up front promises. That they trust each other to decide together or individually, but that I must expect that the answer will sometimes be no. They did reassuree that as much as their basic s***** appetites, as well as variety in appetite, were rapidly increasing with all of this, that them requiring near total control of my s***** needs would rarely be something that left me wanting or going without. I agreed to all of what they said, and since they have keys they are free to come over on demand or whim as they wish, with or without pre knowledge on my part, and I axknowledged that this would require maintaining their trust and that all three of us agree that there are no others involved/that it requires a 3 way version of monogamy between us. Given the amount and type of s** they are giving me it is an easy agreement to make, we would just have to resolve what happens if I want at a given time but neither of them does. They said they realized that could become unfair and had some thoughts they wanted to talk about between themselves.