That’s just an illusion though. It’s not really true.

As a man, it’s also pretty unattractive. That need to be dominant. It’s probably my number one turn off. Mi d you, I don’t want it either, I don’t want to dominate, which is probably why that need pisses me off. It actually pisses me off. It’s about respeCt. Everything.

I won’t give Ena woman with that mind set the time of day. Even it’s my boss, I have had a few female boss, I worked with one for a year exactly many years ago and I worked for one 4.5 years. I don’t like it especially if I don’t think that dominant status is deserved. I mean really not deserved, I’m not just saying that to be arrogant but say she is my boss, by title, she pays my cheques, but I know first hand that she can’t do what I do even if innthe odd even it was necessary for her to do it, she wouldn’t even know where to start…. IMO the title of boss is not deserved. Then it’s just a title. It’s like throwing a crown on your head and standing on the tree house looking down and declaring yourself king or queen of the castle. No. I cannot lie, you are not.

I can do it, I can tolerate it for some time, it’s a pay cheque, I get paid to bite my tongue and do the best job I can, which is usually pretty good mind you, but we will probably b*** heads a few times, like most other guys don’t have the nuts for, and it’s not gonna be good. You can even throw the line “I am your boss!” at me as a final argument, but I’m thinking “are you though? Can you explain to me exactly what makes you my boss BESIDES the fact that you are paying me to do an excellent job, better than most, better than you could, possible better than anyone else you can ever hope find? I’m one in a hundred…”

In a personal relationship, I don’t want to see any of that. It’s BS. A woman like that has feelings of inferior from something. Powerless. She’s probably a little bit feminist, which is not hot. I just don’t get mixed up with women like that. I don’t give them a chance to dominate.