Good and bad news with ex sister in law room mate. If i ignore the whole jacked up aspect of living with a woman who is neither partner nor lover/fwb, it is at least not lonely and is someone to cuddle with through the nights amd sexless existence. We had a real world talk about the forseeable future and like me, she is comfortable and reasonably hapoy living with me. I mean why woildn’t she be, I am well off financially with the ability to work only when i want to, and she has no living expenses. And she doesn’t even have to cough up s**. We had avoided the s** topic deliberately, since she does not want to do anything to reinforce the way I feel about her. She knows that I will understand if she wants to go out and get laid or if she needs the privacy to m*********. But she has stuck to me like glue and I have no clue if that is truly about feeling safe with me or she just doesn’t want to put the free ride at risk. The bad news is that she saw the computer history where I took the time to shop for and have custom designed one of those high end s** dolls that is customized to look like her to the degree possible. She hit me out of the blue calmly with it, just said “so let’s talk about the doll that looks like me”. I explained my reasoning and she took that in stride, said she felt it was really unhealthy for me to do that, but she understood that s***** needs are real and agreed with me that if it was my choice to do that to avoid upsetting the balance of peace that she got it. Made the joke that it had cost less than the money i had given her for s** before her arrest blew all that up and that in a fucked up way it was a compliment. I also told her that I knew a day would likely come that she would move out/on and It also let me prepare for that day in advance as best I could. I could tell there was something else on her mind in her facial expression but she said that she needed to sort something out in her head before she could voice it.