That’s not to say you are unattractive to most guys. Most guys, I’m sure you have a trail of them, don’t give a f***. they just want a piece of a**, they don’t care how f****** crazy you are, or how disgusting you are, or whatever. They call those guys “simps”. Hell they might even be asking for abuse. They’re fucked in the head themselves. They’re deviants, and that’s not cool. There’s a lot of sub par retards out there.

That’s not me though. I have some self respect. Look at the ones on this board eating themselves up over unrequited s***. Like you for example. That’s not only pathetic, but that kind of anxiety eats away at a person. Trust me, I know. Not in many years, but I know. Life is much better when you don’t have these kinds of vices. It helps to train yourself to let go easier. You have this one guy on this board threatening to ruin lives including their own over this kind of this. That’s one hell of a vice mentally fucked. That kind of s*** is detrimental to yourself. You just need to look at the negative. It’s just as a simple as training you brain by looking at everything that makes it impossible. “Do you really want to be with someone who does not want anything to do with you or even might dislike you, not respect you?” Those are good questions to keep it in mind as you’re walking away. It will train your brain to let go of people who need to be let go, genuinely, for real. If the answer is yes, then you need mental help with your head.

Maybe you need to really change the person you are, truly, genuinely, in every way from the ground up to please who you are after. I’ve done that before. I really changed and improved myself inna attempt to get back what I wanted. It didn’t work but it made me a better person so in the end I was better off anyway. Not willing to change? Well then maybe it’s not worth it. You don’t see it as worthy enough and that’s cool too.