To R- I hope you can understand the issue facing that other man. He said..the lust is consuming and controlling his life. Its not a game. Nor is it a joke. He has not been happy. I think s** can be both be beautiful when its “right” and destructive if its abused enough times.

Like you, I am also damaged. Perhaps beyond repair. I don’t know yet. I hope not. What I do know is s** when its used as a weapon is wrong. When its used to reward or punish a man or woman. its wrong. And lets be real. Men use s** sometimes to show power. Women use it to CONTROL men. sad huh?

A b******* and a good little pat on the head for a guy ..and time to get rid of him. You can’t sit there..and say….its never happened to you. Look at you now. You have NO Idea what love is. what it isnt. I can honestly speak openly and say,

I hope that other guy, wont waste 24 yrs….in two broken marriages. And then end up with a very fat obese woman. And will sit in a dark room at night. alone. playing with himself. watching dirty videos of girls old enough to be his daughter/grandaughter.

I’m not trying to hurt you. I swear i’m not. But look at this situation objectively. Don’t you ever wish…just ONCE you could have truly been healed? From your past abuses from your mom and dad? Don’t you wish you could have grown old with the ONE woman ..the same girl..that you loved when you were young? Don’t you wish your passion had NEVER cooled for her? or…her’s cooled for you?

Never think ALL guys are like you. I think you are a good soul..but a little lost. My Dad has been married to my mother…for 55 years. And yes….they still get it on. She knows how to keep my father happy. She honestly surprised me. She told me she gives oral s** some nights.

Let me tell you a little secret. My Dad was a hottie when he was younger. Had PLENTY of chances and oppourtinity to cheat. My mother also…could have strayed. But they didn’t. If something didn’t work right? they fixed it. And now…they go on cruises every year.

My mom used to pay me..and my brother….to leave the house….for the ENTIRE day…she wanted time with our dad. I was 19 when that happened. My mom….nurtures her love for my father..and my dad….does the same. WHEN my mom has a problem…my dad is there. he stands strong next to her. as does she….him.

My parents were no saints…they went into X** movies….when they were first married. They were young dumb and stupid. They were curious. But later on, they would come to know God. God healed….that wunderlust for s**….in each of them.

I hope you find peace in your videos. and cam.

I hope more…God will heal your soul…and even….your mind.

God Bless you R

—T