To: Original Poster: The only way I’d ever consider moving on is with one man in particular (A). You see after being in a s***** marriage for 11 years, I won’t settle again.
Me: We only have one life and it is soon over – perhaps even quicker with Covid and those “test vaccines” if you have had any – if not, do my free salt water sniffle and stay safe as I have done these past 26.5 years, I am never ill.
So you have a guy in mind, why not test the waters with him and see if he has any interest in you and by the same token, if he has, try a “bit on the side”, to see if he is really as good for you as you think he might be.
11 years in one relationship is pretty impressive, best I could do was 5 years, 4 years and my current live in “companion” 7 years, but marriage, not bloody likely.
Depending on where you live, if you boot hubby out, does he have to pay maintenance for you and your kids and you keep the house, where he gets what he can carry, sort of thing.
Anyway, you are doing what you have to do to survive and you know where you are heading, but if you want to bounce ideas off me, I am happy to give advice, if that would be of any help to you.
Talking about which, different countries, you and I, hence different timelines – you are probably about 12 hours behind us.
Richard