I wasn’t even going to respond to that b******* but since you think it’s me, I am. It’s not me, it should be me, it sounds like me, that’s exactly how I should feel about you, but It’s not. The fact that it makes you angry goes to show that what that person is saying is exactly how you feel that you treated me. The fact that you try to use that one thing against me over and over, especially when it didn’t even happen that way, is all I truly need to know about how you feel about me. I don’t care why you did this anymore, I don’t care that you regret choosing the person you chose to spend your life with and that you choose to take your feelings toward her out on me. I’m done.

My kids are preparing to the live the nest and I am trying to build a new life for myself. I would appreciate it if you’d just stop now. It’s been years and you are clearly never going to step up and be a friend or whatever and No matter what you say or do, I will never initiate anything. The ball has always been in your court and that is where it’s going to stay. I realize that you might have said some of the things you said because you thought other people were me but that still doesn’t excuse the fact that you said them. I won’t be posting here again. I’m tired of trying to make you see that I would have never hurt you but you’ve made me see that it doesn’t matter to you if you hurt me. Just stop now.