To: My girlfriend is methodical about doctor appointments.
Me: For a guy, that is a c*** of a job. I think it would have been a great job for me too (male guy) and the other one would have been cutting toe nails, especially of young women, where I could see the p****** they were wearing, or maybe not (wearing any at all) – I have a white p****** fetish, as it happens.
Personally, I think every 3 months is excessive and perhaps you should seek your doctor’s advice on that – I imagine professionally, nothing happens, but she likes the e***** feeling she gets by seeing her gynecologist looking at her naked and putting his fingers (in plastic gloves) and tools inside her – as I would in that scenario, if I were a female (sigh, not in this lifetime).
If you are trying to have a child, then it makes some sense for her to be checked regularly, but every 3 months does seem a little unusual unless she has a medical problem “in there” which needs regular treatment and checkups to make sure everything is progressing normally – perhaps you should ask her if she has anything happening in there that you should know about?
Going with her spreads the feeling of distrust and if you do, that will fester and you stand to lose her altogether, sooner or later, because she has a right to her s***** health for you and you don’t have any right to be present when her examination takes place.
Cap your anger and let circumstances take their course and don’t take any of this personally, you have to gain her trust, not lose it through some inconsequential thing now, but forever.
If she cannot trust you, then what is the point of you remaining married to her, after all?