That’s the other thing about it too, it shouldn’t be something you strive for. You either have it or you don’t. You should not need to strive or fake it.
Either way, it’s not something I look for in a woman. That involves too much thinking, bullshit and potentially being dragged into competition and all the bullshit that comes with that. I have zero patience when it comes to that shit, mentally. You get with a woman with a swelled head declaring herself an “Alfa” she’s definitely too much of a handful. Big head. It’s not very lady like, in my humble opinion. She’s a fucking problem. Too hard on my head.