That’s the other thing about it too, it shouldn’t be something you strive for. You either have it or you don’t. You should not need to strive or fake it.
Either way, it’s not something I look for in a woman. That involves too much thinking, b******* and potentially being dragged into competition and all the b******* that comes with that. I have zero patience when it comes to that s***, mentally. You get with a woman with a swelled head declaring herself an “Alfa” she’s definitely too much of a handful. Big head. It’s not very lady like, in my humble opinion. She’s a f****** problem. Too hard on my head.
