That’s partly true.
That really is just some women, but you are absolutely correct that is you need to chase a woman at all, it’s probably not meant to be. 10 years…. if you got it then, how could you ever have faith.
I have gone as far as 8 years after having her for 3, so I was going on faith in what I thought we had but it came to a point a breaking point where you need to look at everything you have put into it, all that time and energy wasted, look at your age, and ask yourself if you want to waste any more time on something that likely has moved on a d is deep into something else…. While she laughs at what a loser you are… A d has noninfectious of ever giving you anything for the rest of your life? Be real with yourself about what it is, and choose to move on. It also comes to a point where it you look at it realistically do you even want a person who can let you suffer like that over them? Even if you got it, there is some serious resentment at her for putting her through it. You know part of you hates her for it.
That’s not a good person. But you can’t believe all women are like that. Some people are just fucked up in the head for whatever reason. Maybe they had strict or fucked up parents? You need to separate yourself from her, go out think nothing of it, speak nothing of it, meet new people, find another job, do something totally different, just get around, meet new people, speak nothing of it, be yourself, don’t b*******, and let those people show you what s*** is really about. Maybe you feel like it’s your fault, you are made to feel like you did something wrong, you are a s***** person? I’ve been there, I always found that when I get around new people after being inna situation like that, I am always shocked at how well liked I am and what they make me feel. You can’t contaminate it with the toxic s*** of the past be speaking of it either. You need to forget it, and move on but if you play it straight, leave s*** in the past, me tally separate yourself for it, other people how they see you, treat you, respect you, will change your views of you and what you’re about.
And learn from it. Stay away from that type of woman. They are easy to spot. Never think with anything but your brain and remember some things are not worth the b*******.