Reply to If you hate me, I get it. No matter what you or anyone else believes to be true, I loved/love you. It hurts knowing how you may be feeling and not being able to do anything about it. I just hope you know, deep down, I’m here and always will be. Just say the word.

Me—- why can’t you just be a good friend and reach out, send a text, call, mail a note, leave a flower on the windshield. I’m hurt more than anything but I know that no matter what, I love that man so much! If all I had to do is say a word and he’d be here, I would. Unfortunately, we are both married and since I haven’t heard from him, I can only presume he and his wife are doing better. I will never cause problems between them if they are doing better. I want him to be happy even if that means I can never be with him 🤧.

Hopefully your situation isn’t as complicating as two separate marriages. So if not, swallow your pride and reach out to him/her.