Just read the long rant talking about stand by your man…. Let me just say, it must be easy for you, an outsider, to say that. You never know why someone’s heart is wondering. You never know what they are going through with their so called “man” Is standing by a man worth never feeling like yourself again? Is standing by a man worth years of mental abuse and neglect? Is standing by a man worth the suicidal thoughts that follow? Is standing by a man worth crying yourself to sleep every single night right beside that man with him not paying you any attention? It’s like society thinks that staying together is always the answer, it’s not. If you have someone who is in a relationship interested in you maybe tell them that you are not interested. That you don’t see yourself with them but definitely don’t be a d*** and tell her to stand by her man. Her heart isn’t out wondering for nothing. Her man is probably a p************ behind closed doors. 🤷🏻‍♀️