People who preach pro choice. (most) never had an abortion. It happens to be a shame and a secret most of us women carry to our graves. And yes. its a club of us. Many of us are haunted by our actions. We go thru life. Looking into the eyes of other children and moms….Wondering. Just always wondering. Would I have had a boy? or a girl? Nothing haunts a mother more…than a child she aborts. Oh people can say many things. I wish someone had told me this. It might have changed the course of my life. I was stupid. I didn’t tell anyone. I wish now i had. told my sister. I didn’t. I kept it a deep dark secret, till a few years ago. so..i hope you truly think long and hard before you make any choice. Life is not a game. Its truly a miracle. I just hope you never learn this harsh lesson that haunts many of us.