To: My mom constantly comes to my door and asks what I am doing.
Me: This is new uncharted territory. See what your mum says when you do something new s******* with her. If she says NO!! back off, but if she says nothing at all, then tell her what you want her to do with your body.
Try stripping in front of her, down to your underpants, after the doors are locked, the curtains are over the windows and you have some soft music she likes playing in the background then sit next to her and ask her to massage your body because you love her touch on you and when she gets down to your underpants, put her hand inside and tell her to massage you.
Make noises while you are rubbing yourself off or she is rubbing you and when you b*************, be loud about it, but not too loud.
You could try taking off your pants and rubbing off a load and blow it over her and see how she responds to that and if she is OK with it, suggest the next time you do it together, she takes her clothes off too, because it is easier to remove s**** from the skin than it is from clothing and once you get her n***, reciprocate and ask her what she likes and how you can do that for her.
Your mum is probably at that place where something is right or it is wrong and she does not know how to proceed or not and you need to make those decisions for her, but be guided by her reaction and always back off if she says NO!!, however, perseverance is the mother of invention and if at first you don’t succeed, try and try again until you do, if it is meant to be…………….