To: I’ve been married for over a year, and I don’t think my wife likes having s** with me anymore.
Me: Ask her why she does not get aroused by you, when you want s** with her and if there is a problem, fix it.
It can be for a multitude of reasons, amongst them, that you need to get her s******* active, before you have s** with her, when she is self lubricated and ready to f*** – down to almost anything.
If she has no s***** feelings towards you, ask if she likes s** with women and if so, consider suggesting you have a female who is Bi as your regular visitor or to live with you, so that she gets her s** and you get yours with the Bi female.
Alternatively, you could just say that the reasons of marriage were where you expected her to be a willing and active partner and you don’t want to continue a relationship with her and you want a divorce, because she failed in her principal role as wife and future bearer of your kids – irrespective of if you want any or not.
That said. You have the rest of your life with this woman and if you can’t get your rocks off frequently with her, do you want to spend it wasted and you frustrated for the rest of your married life with her.
R