To: My husband doesn’t even realize that over the years the the lack of love, affection, and attention my feelings for him have diminished
Me: We all do. We get used to our partner and I guess they get used to us and life gets boring, but the things that keep us together are the possessions we both own, the kids, or perhaps just the company and not wanting to make change, because in the long term, whoever we meet, it will eventually end up feeling just the same way as it does now, although the circumstances might have changed for the worse and who wants to live below current standards.
Most relationships I’ve had petered out after about 6 to 9 months and after some years it is like life compatibility and no s**, because neither of us are interested in the other that way anymore.
I imagine you are a female and there is nothing to stop you from having cheating relationships with someone else of either s**, as long as you can keep it secret and don’t ever tell, bearing in mind that if you can still have kids, you need to be on the pill, for safety’s sake.
We only have one life and we are a long time dead and we won’t be coming back a second time, because it is not physically possible – so you have 2 choices really, stay as you are and do nothing, or look around for a younger person with stamina who can service your needs without strings, or getting into a complicated relationship, you don’t want.
In that scenario – no “Love Bites”, no photos of you in the n***, etc and keep your options open and be ready and able to move on as the situation warrants.
Put any prospective name on Google and see if they have a reputation and what that is, before taking anyone on as a f*** partner and if you have a female/male friend you can trust, always tell them where you are going to be, if something unexpected happens and you can’t get home, for whatever reason.
If you are female and lived where I do (very, very unlikely) I am in the same boat as you (me Male) and I would love to put you through your paces, from a s***** point of view, with no strings attached.
Find out if you are a groaner or a screamer from an o***** point of view.
Richard