To: I don’t know how to explain it, you ever get the feeling that you’re insignificant?
Me: You are what you allow others to make you be. If you step away from what others say or think about you and don’t give a s*** about what they say, but go your own way and follow your own path, that is step number one.
If you go to places where nobody knows you, you break the mold of who you are and how those who know you see you and in your new environment, you need to pretend to be everything you want to be and have out of life and everyone you meet, will see you as you pretend to be and won’t know you as anybody else, because they won’t know you from before and that is step number 2.
After a bit, you don’t have to pretend any more, because the new you is who you will be and then as you move through your life, you can make minor adjustments here and there to get a better result.
If you allow yourself to be stuck in a runt, then nothing will change and if anything, everything will only get worse.
Reality is what you want to make it and ultimately it is up to you to make the most of your life, however you go about that.
Relationships, especially when you are young, rarely last very long and don’t take it to heart if a relationship did not work out for you. Learn from the experiences and don’t make the same mistakes the next time around.
Life is like a ball of wax and you can mold your life and you, to any shape you want – the only thing which will hold you back is to listen to what others say about you – so f*** the lot of them!!