To: My BF for 16 years is hitting me on the head whenever he is mad at me.
Me: This is troubling. If you live in the West, America, England, somewhere like that, report your boyfriend to the police for hitting you, as soon as you can and let the police handle issues between you and your boyfriend.
If you are in India or somewhere like that, speak to your parents about your boyfriend hitting you (or anyone else you know) and ask them for guidance on how to get out of the relationship you are in with him and also to get the police involved, because hitting you just is not right.
The more you give in to him, the more he is going to beat on you, because he has physical power over you and he can beat on you and get away with it and he has enslaved you to his wishes, which is a really bad thing.
If you can’t do any of the above, then I suggest you take a very physical response.
Wait until he is standing with his legs open, completely relaxed and not expecting anything from you and then kick him as hard as you can between his legs and when he bends forwards towards you, bring up your knee and knee him under his head and when he asks you why you did that, later on, tell him that you have had enough of his violence and now he knows what to expect any time you feel like it, in the future.
You have to kick him really hard in the balls, because if you don’t he will hit you again and you need to take control of him and make him afraid of you, as indeed he will be and this is the only way out, otherwise, for you.
Good Luck, Best Wishes……
