To: I’m turning 21 this year and I’ve never been in a relationship.
Me: Try dating sites. You get a preview of each potential background of each person you see.
Go for someone who is rich, or is a Tradesman, because there will always be employment for them.
Meet, if you do, at a Coffee Shop or a place where you can have a meal and always go “Dutch”, where you pay for your meal and he pays for his, so there are no s***** expectations afterwards.
Progress with your friendship if you click, but don’t follow up, if you don’t.
If he is an a******, excuse yourself and take your bag and say you are going to the toilet, but leave instead and don’t go back or have contact with him ever again.
Be on the pill, so if you have unconditional s**, you don’t get pregnant.
If you have personality issues, try going somewhere nobody knows you and pretend to be everything opposite to how you actually are and you will find that people accept you as they see you and you can pretend play, until you find an outgoing persona you like and after a while, the pretense stops being a pretend and that is who you actually become.
The brighter the clothing, the more outgoing you pretend to be, until it is who you actually are – Simple!!
