To: are my parents supposed to hurt me if i make a simple mistake
Me: your father is abusing you physically, but he is only treating you the way he was brought up by his parents and he does not know any other way.
Best thing to do is find ways to do everything expected of you, the right way, so that he does not have any reason to want to punish you. Perhaps take more time to do things right and not leave anything behind you, which is going to have him punish you for, later on.
My father used to punish me with beatings frequently, for any reason he could think of, because he was a bully and he enjoyed inflicting pain on me, because I could not fight back – when I eventually did, he had been trained as a Commando in the last war and was blindingly fast in his ease with which he overpowered me and beat me to an inch of my life and from that moment on I hated him with every fiber of my being and I still do, both my parents actually, although they are both long since dead.
He said he used to beat me to make me strong and I am a tough bugger to be sure – it is how it is.
When you have kids, you have a choice, you can bring up your lids like your father did you, or you can bring them up with love and care and appreciation, so which one will you choose?
Me personally, I brought up 5 kids with love, care and appreciation and never the way my parents brought me up.
Your life, your choice.
Good Luck
