To: hi there ive just been to bed with my boss and I’m a married woman
Me: Don’t tell your husband ever. What he does not know, won’t hurt him, or you.
You enjoyed the s** with your boss and he wants you on a regular basis – go for it – enjoy and perhaps ask your boss for a pay rise, after all, with extra curricular activities, you are doing a lot more than your job description and then it would be a win/win for both of you.
Pigeon hole the time you are with your husband, from the times when you are with your boss.
When you think of hubby, think of home life and when you think of your boss think work life and keep the two “occupations” separate, so that the one does not impede on the other.
Good Luck, Best Wishes, make sure you are on the pill, so you don’t have any unpleasant surprises, unless you want more kids of course, when you should have hubby f*** you, to cover your bases if your boss manages to get you pregnant and then hubby can carry the cost of upbringing on the kid which probably is not his, but how would he know any better, unless your hubby is white, your boss is black and the kid comes out black, which would give the game away.