To: He wants me to model swimsuits for him!? I don’t know if I can do that
Me: Go with your gut feeling. Your gut feeling says NO to swimsuits, so no it must be and don’t do it, or let him take photos of you in swimsuits.
One of the problems with swimsuits is that there are no secrets when you wear one and when they get wet, they can become see-through and guys and girls can see a lot more of you than you intended, also some people will get their rocks off, just by m***********, or wanking themselves off, looking at you, in various poses with a swimsuit on and you really don’t want that.
By the same token, if he has not seen you naked, then a swimsuit is the nearest thing to being naked, without being naked, that there is and perhaps he will work on your vulnerability, to eventually take your swimsuit off and then you would be totally vulnerable to any photos he takes of you and where he posts them, for everyone to see!!
I don’t get the “taking pills” thing, but I would not swallow any pills anyone gave me, unless they were prescribed by a doctor, or I purchased them myself, for perhaps, a headache.
Finally, you don’t know what his ultimate motivation for you is – he might be thinking of pimping you for s** and he is working on your vulnerabilities, so that he can have his way with you and goodness knows what else.
Next best thing is to dump him like a hot potato and stay away from him in future and choose your own path, with people who your fall in love with, who don’t expect you to perform in ways that don’t take advantage of you, or your physical shape, or anything else, in that regard.
Keep Safe, Be Well.
