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To: I dislike beautiful women for one reason. They get lots of attention from men.
Me: Beautiful women (and men) have personalities which are paper thin, because they rely on their good looks to get them by. If you develop your personality so that you are interesting to talk to, you have your own point of view which you can talk about, you are fun to be around and you smile a lot, you dress brightly, so that you stand out, have a nice haircut and smell fresh and clean (underarm and a light perfume) then you won’t have any problems meeting guys and in fact you might have to beat excessive numbers off with a stick, because you will be so popular and the beautiful women won’t be able to compete with you at all.
Try walking around with a smile on your face, eyeball everyone who comes towards you and see how many smile back at you – it is that easy!!
As a man, I learned this skill, for a skill is what it is, by the most extreme methods possible and once I had the skills down pat, I never looked back and neither should you.
It is easy enough to change your personality, just pretend to be whoever you want to be and after a while you don’t have to pretend anymore, because that is who you will be and you will gain confidence as you progress in your pretense, so that you get skilled in all of the other things as well.
Expect to f*** up occasionally and accept that as part of your learning curve, shrug your shoulders, remember not to make the same error again and all will be well.
Meeting guys and being popular is not about what you look like, but how you sell yourself and remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you don’t know how they will look at you, or what they are looking for in a woman, but beauty takes second place to someone who is actively interesting and enjoyable to be around.
Once met a female who was ex relationship who was so beautiful, but she was as dense as a brick and had nothing to say for herself, except look beautiful and speaking for myself, at that time, I had enough furniture in my home and did not need any more.
Good Luck, Best Wishes

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