If you can’t be yourself around someone, you shouldn’t be around them.

And if you don’t like yourself, you need to change yourself. If you feel as if someone who you like, doesn’t or won’t like “the real you” or aspects of it and it will cost you that person, you have 2 choices, while keeping in mind that no person is really entitled to anything from another.

1) look at yourself realistically, judge it. Are these undesirable traits? If the answer is “yes, I can do better….” then make legit changes to yourself and stick to them while also realizing that “It is a change for better, but it might not win me what I want…” and accept it.

2) look at yourself, see nothing wrong with anything, believe in yourself, say f*** that, I am not change anything, and walk away from what it is that you want knowing that isn’t good for you.

There’s 3 choices really, if you just keep it going, knowing things are not right.

I know once I make my mind up on a person, if I am done, I’m done. I’ve usually done all the math, can this person change? Are there even capable of change at this point? Do I like myself? Am I willing to change or take it? Can I force myself to go one way or another (not a person out there can change me, my opinions, beliefs, for anything if I’m being realistic). I have made changes to myself in the past which were good for me, but also in an attempt to change to opinions of others though. It got me nothing from them, but that’s alright those changes were for the better for me, but if I don’t think something is broke, I won’t fix it or change my mind, myself, my opinions, belief, or anything like that.