To R from guy caught with dog by inlaws: thank you for what you said, i completely agree with much of it. The counselor did not let them sit in on the session for patient privacy and because they are not paying for it. While that is obviously good news, I am dreading their insistence that I come to their house for dinner this evening. I had ridden to the appointment with them to honor their concern that I would not go, and on the way taking me back home they were talking as if I were not even there, on topics such as without being in the sessions, how can they be sure I am working on things, to how to “monitor” my behavior when home alone for a week or two at a time with wife gone. While my father in law said that he felt I had had a very serious scare that would help, my mother in law took quite the opposite approach and argued that I would likely end up escalating and doing worse things like s** with men when wife is gone and she said she has no intention of me “fouling” her daughter’s home by doing so. My father in law laughed a bit and said that he got that but that even that would be a step up from what she had caught me doing. I don’t know what I may be confronted with this evening.