To: The guy addressing the shy girl. YOU DO know that not all of them are trying to “tame” a bad boy right? What is this? Some poorly written Kylo Ren fan fiction? It comes from genuinely liking someone and hoping that they see in you what you see in them. Or becoming so trapped under the understanding that you’ll never find better? What do you know about her other than your own assumptions. So you leave and repeat a cycle because you don’t KNOW what a nice guy is until you’ve gone out into the world and realized that there are more types out there and all of them better than what you’re used to. I’m glad that you found your girl, but your deliverance on how to “find a nice guy” needs a bit more work.

Jesus f***, even if I didn’t address what you were saying, I couldn’t read it because the whole spiel came off as condescending.

Mutual respect is nice but communication barriers are the guillotine to all good relationships.