To the person that agreed with the post about the way girls are being raised: It is systematic. Many mothers are part of the cycle and unwittingly TRAIN their girls to be better than they were. Some of them are lucky to find men/ Significant others who want a 50/50. The ones who have thoughts like this are either dead, beaten into submission, or in jail. And that’s sad.

We as women tend to go for the stronger male, so the ones who want to do the romantic things for us are tossed aside because we want them to be like how our mothers raised us to want. Toxic as f***. Because having deeper voices and pretty faces with a domineering attitude makes for a better man. We are obviously in a man’s world we look for the man that provides all.

Nice guys, if you’re reading this, I’m sorry it took for me to hit the age of 30 to see your value. We put them to the side for guys that overly sexualize us and belittle us. For relationships that are unhealthy and mentally damaging, to have babies with men who set the standards for THOSE young kids who then follow in our footsteps. Somewhere I’m hoping that even on this s*** anonymous site, that it will wake a girl who knows she deserves more up, and that she will eventually make the step to leave and break the habit.

That lifestyle is toxic as f***, and it needs to go. We outnumber the men by a far margin and yet we still haven’t evolved from the things that the women in the past have fought for. We need make it better.