To: I love her and i am in relationship with her but I cannot understand why i don’t like being with her
Me: Perhaps you provide her with everything she wants out of you to satisfy whatever she wants out of your relationship with her, but she does not provide you with everything you want out of her, to fulfill your needs, whether physical or s***** and if that is the case, then things are probably going to get worse and not better for you.
Perhaps subconsciously, you can see faults when you are out and about together, that you can’t see when you are home together.
Whatever the issue is, you either accept all of her faults and carry on as you are, or you suggest a bit of time out, so that you can sort out your feelings for her and if she is really the right one for you – perhaps by playing the field and seeing if that improves your overall take on how she was, when you were with her as being OK, after all.
We only have one life and we are a long time dead, so it is well worth the effort to get relationships squared away for the long haul and not taking second best and ending up in a relationship which emotionally kills you.
Um – get it right from the outset, sort of thing.