I am married and had an affair with a guy I use to have s** with a lot before I got married. He later got married with his current wife and I got married with my current husband and didn’t talk for two months. And then we did again once we met up. We exchange messages of how we wanted to be with each other, how much we loved each other, and how much we missed each other. We would met up to talk and then have s**. These meet ups happened when my schedule was open. I tried ending things so I can only be with my husband and then he recently found out his wife was exchanging s***** messages with another man and ended out affair.