To: i am emotionally numbed.
Me: Birds of a feather flock together and obviously, the birds you are flocking with are the wrong ones. Let me put that into context. You are a beautiful white swan and the men are an assortment of ducks, water birds and other bird types and of course you can’t mate with any of them, because they are not compatible with you.
You can settle for second best and go with the rich guy, because you can be assured or a comfortable lifestyle, in the long run, without the passion, which is no different than going with your boyfriend who you don’t have feelings for either, or you can keep laying the odds and wait until you meet someone who really rings your bell and the best way to determine who that might be, is if you get a crush on him.
I’m a guy and I’ve had relationships with plenty of women and with the exception of two, years apart, all of the other relationships and marriages were about s** first and foremost and everything else sort of followed.
Neither of the two relationships, where I fell in love, lasted for very long, because of issues they had, but did not have anything to do with me – the relationship I have now is 6 years old, but I don’t feel any connection with my female companion, it is more about company than s** and I have never had s** with her, because she is not my body type and I never will.
So at days end, you either accept someone you don’t feel anything for, for the company and assets you gain out of it, or you go out with lots of guys, until you find one who lights the spark in your soul and who you want to be with, for all of the right reasons, irrespective of if they are rich or poor.
Good Luck in your search – was me, I would go after wealth every time, for an easier lifestyle and if I wanted kids, to have them with a guy who had the financial means to ensure a really good life for all of us, which is where I am now, for myself and my female companion.
Put another way, why ride on the backseat of a bicycle, or scooter, when you can ride on the backseat of a car?
R