To: To the 56 year old female.
Me: If you have a tight body and you have kept yourself trim, then there is no need to wear a bra, as you know.
Me, personally, as a man, well i love white underwear and a low top, so if you bend over the guy gets an eyeful and if you discreetly open your legs, with white cotton pantries on, he gets to look right up and that is one hell of a turn on for any man.
Wear a light perfume and s*** clothing which shows nothing, but appears to and you are well on the way to a successful night.
Tell someone who you are going out with, how to get in contact with you, just to check up on you and make sure you are safe, during your date and don’t go anywhere other than your home, unless you can be sure that you remain safe at all times – there is plenty of opportunity to get more adventurous, with later dates, when you can find out more about him.
As a first resort, look his name up on Google and see what others say about him and if you have any doubts, safety before all things, must be your priority, even if that means you take a female chaperone to ensure his reasons are genuine, as is he.