To: I’ve only ever had an o***** during i********** once, with a married man.
Me: No, absolutely not. As a female, you do not know about your body, or s**, or the ways that an expert male, (like myself) can turn you on, without you even being aware of what I am doing, until it is far too late.
Had one woman who would not dance with me, unless I held my hands out as far away from her body, as I could reach, to touch her, that went well for a bit until she forgot to check on me and by then it was far too late (hands on) and the rest is history, you might say, (it was tremendously funny for me, at the time)
Take a hand held mirror and look at your v***** and examine it carefully – if you are fortunate, you might have extended inner lips (labia) and therein is the total pleasure and multiple orgasms you, or a lover can give you, with a v******* going full speed, your Labia well lubricated with Vaseline and a finger held one side of either lip, and the v******* on the other side, with the vein in the upper part of each lip trapped between the two (now engorged) providing you with countless orgasms.
Next time you go to the toilet and have a Wee, see where the fluid comes out of, it is a sort of nub, above your v***** – get some Vaseline and coat it on that nub. then watch a p*** movie, or think s***** things which “turn you on” and m********* that spot with your hand and you will feel the o***** building until you let yourself c** – give yourself permission to do it, after all it is your pleasure and your body – and you can use your other free hand to play with a t** and when you think you are about to blow, play with a t** and especially rub or pinch the n*****, it all helps.
It might take some practice to get it right, but if you give yourself the time and practice to make it happen, it will and it is as normal for you to do it to yourself, as breathing, eating or taking a s***, or for that matter, a guy wanking himself off, same as you.
Anytime you want s***** advice ask me here. It helps to know what your country of origin is and if you have been de-sexed or not – different strokes for different girls, sort of thing.
So, it did not come down to the one guy you had an o***** with, more likely you did not know how to “service” yourself and that is just like not knowing how to put petrol into a car – fair enough?