To: 1. my parents always complain about me im 16 the oldest yet i cant seem to act like a human being
Me: Hang on. You are 16 and if you have a choice, when you get a job, move out and live somewhere else, where you can be who you want and f*** who you like.
The first out never gets much love or respect, that usually goes to the last one out and the youngest – it is how it is.
Passive resistance is what I practiced (although I did not have a name for it)with my parents and when I moved out I provided payback and payback is a b**** and I hated both of my parents and always have, to the extent I refused to have children and pass on the family name.
Direct your issues at your parents and put the blame where it should be with them and not on you – it does make life a lot easier.
Stick with it, nothing needs to last forever, spend more time with your siblings and less with your parents, as much as you can.
Best Wishes and Good Luck.