To: My name is Jasmine, and I am now 25 years old
Me: Unlike the other guy or girl who posted here, I would say that you have a lifestyle few could ever achieve, but if that leaves you feeling lost inside, for the physical things which really matter to you, then you need to readdress your reasons, for what you do and decide if you want more, in other ways, out of your marriage and then you have to decide that if you do cheat on your husband, do you have what it takes to pigeon hole what you do, out of his sight, from what you do do, when you are with him.
Do you have holidays away from each other, or do you have holidays together. Do you live in each others pockets, or do you have separation from your respective lifestyles and work activities.
Could you propose that you have a business venture that takes you to Spain and will increase your business income, if successful and that you need to do this on your own, to improve your self worth and business acumen, separated from your husband, except by iPhone – sort of thing.
Then if I were you, I would go to Spain with this rich guy and see how things play out, after all, your body is your own and what you do with it is entirely up to you and if your husband trusts you to go on your own, then what you do there is between “you, yourself and I”, sort of thing and if you compartmentalize the one from the other, you can do whatever you like, without any later recriminations.
There is no right age to marry and no wrong – usually marriage might be based on mutual feelings and his being able to provide you and your children, with the financial backing necessary, when you are not working, as he obviously does, so I would say, good pick.
At days end, we only have this one life and we are a long time dead afterwards.
When we pack many adventures into our one life, we grow mentally and physically and we have a wonderful life, as I have had – so you must decide what you want to do with yours, take the good with the bad and have absolutely no regrets and hang on to your marriage, because that should be the one thing you can count on and be your backstop, no matter what else you do in life to enjoy yourself.