To: I have been married for 34 years. The last 5 have been so disappointing. Actually my husband has been disappointing.
Me: We rarely actually meet someone who is going to keep us happy and motivated all of our lives – in a lot of ways my current female “companion” has been a dead loss too, but I’m stuck in something with plenty of side benefits so I am loathe to change anything – why cut off your nose to spite your face, sort of thing.
What is the difference to her and a corpse, well a corpse is dead, otherwise they both are laying down all day long and this one gets up for a couple of hours in the evening to keep me company, but at the rate she is going, I doubt I will see her at all, unless I go down to her bedroom……….I’m up and about by 6am daily. (Shrug)
You like me, have options. If you are not getting what you want from your husband, get a bit on the side and hopefully he, or she, will spice up your life, so that together, all of your bells are rung on a regular basis.
Don’t ever tell hubby and that way you enrich your relationship with him, by cheating on him (no loss there) sort of thing.
I should take advantage of my own advice, but I don’t, mainly because the women “here”, look very much like my companion, who is overly large, where I really like skinny and they are few and far between and usually taken and unapproachable anyway.
As a female, there are a lot more doors open to you, whereas as a man, which I am, there are very few, if any, doors left open to me.
Too many guys wanting a s*** female and not enough s*** females to go around.
It is how it is.