To: I’m emotionally cheating on my husband with a guy from work.
Me: Always do for yourself what your husband does not do for you, if that makes you feel better about yourself – with your work mate.
Everyone dies sooner or later and the best way to look at that is to say to yourself that a Heart Attack is as quick a way to go as any and they would not have suffered for long.
Finally, don’t think of carrying guilt, or being any less than who you are.
If your husband looked after you emotionally the way he is expected to, then you would not have to look for it somewhere else – his bad, not yours.