To: I’m scared that I will always be in this place. Stuck.
Me: If your partner won’t make the changes necessary to fulfill what you want out of life, then you have 2 choices:
1) Stay with him and achieve nothing.
2) Move out and away from him and find someone else who will fulfill your dreams and have the life you always wanted for yourself.
People don’t change, it is just the circumstances which they live with on a day by day basis, which does that – or if you like “a Leopard can’t change its spots”.
Your life, your choice – have you got what it takes to move on?