To: I don’t believe there is a perfect person and I’m terrified that I’ll never find mine.
Me: You might find someone whose company you enjoy and that blossoms into something else, depending on if you are a young adult and don’t see faults in the other person, because we all have them.
Unfortunately, that love rarely lasts for ever and if you want a long term relationship, you and the other person have to work at it, nothing comes easy, which is why so many marriages end in divorce.
I’ve never met my perfect person, although I have come close once or twice, only to later see that what I believed was the ideal, turned out not to be.
Ultimately, if you want a s***** relationship, the best thing you can do is go by your instincts and if you mentally feel you have a connection, but if you have any doubts, back off and try again with someone else.
Sometimes I think paying for s** is probably the best way to go, because you get s** whenever you need to have it, p*** aside and the rest of your time you can enjoy doing whatever you want to do without someone else queering your pitch.
Usually, if you don’t look for someone, you find someone, or someone finds you when you least expect it, but you have to put yourself out there, so that you can be seen and spoken with, because nobody will beat a path to your door, if you don’t advertise that you exist at all.